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Ex boyfriend accusing me of stealing his debit card

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Being i was in a bind last month and needed help with my bills, my boyfriend at the time gave me his debit card to pay a couple of my bills.

Power bill and water bill. Now that we havent been getting along and are broke up, he calls his bank to say his card was stolen.

I received a call from the water board telling me that they needed to talk to me about the payment i made online. They said someone had reported the card stolen. Now I have charge back fees to pay back plus the bill I paid with his debit card.. He gave me the card and all his information to use the card.

I am worried about what will happen next.. This is not fair by no means. What can I do?

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I'm sure you can do lots of things, including explaining the situation to the two utilities and anyone else who asks.  Whether that will result in any of the added fees being removed is anyone's guess.  Obviously, you'll still have to pay the bills.

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Thank you for your quick response. I understand the bills have to be paid regardless of anything and thats fine by me. The ex is calling his bank saying i stole the card when i have text messages on my phone from him rubbing it in my face. Like laughing in my face so to speak.

My next question is: Me not knowing if the bank has took action or not, should i take it upon myself to go to his bank and maybe show them the text messages i have?? This has been an ongoing thing with this guy and his bank account since I met him. Every month he gets his disability check, he claims someone is taking his money. He has blamed the bank, online merchants and God knows who else.

I am afraid the bank will press charges against me. I dont need any warrants signed on me..

He has sent me another text saying I stole his entire social security check now.. Omg, hes told the Social Security Office that I have stole his check..Im really wondering what I should do.. This is fraudulent activity hes accusing me of..Any advice will be appreciated. 

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