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Custodial mother forcing homosexuality on 9 year old

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As I have mentioned previously my child had a social services crisis intervention last Christmas due to behavioral issues. I tried to describe how the mother, aunt and grandmother were using him essentially as a weapon, as well as other children physically attack him and the adults just allow it to happen, and then the school officials leave bruises on him and just ignore the abuse situation he is in, and actually add to it and take part in it.

I referred to photos of my son, posted on fb by his mother, of him dressed up for a gay parade 5k run as an example of how the mother, aunt and grandmother are attempting to deliberately use the child as a weapon to harm me, and in turn are harming him. It is somewhat referred to in the police report from last Christmas, albeit skewed by the officer's manipulation and selective listening.

However, that very night my son's mother went and dressed him up and put women's lipstick on him and posted a photo og him like that on fb, as well as a photo of him extending his middle finger back when he was around the age of three, and her, her mother and her sister were all making comments in the comment section which appear aimed at causing me emotional distress, perhaps in trying to get a reaction out of me.

My understanding is that she took him camping with a transvestite, takes him to a restaurant with flamboyant waiters in order to deliberately influence him, simply to try to distance the child from me. I personally do not care if my child chooses to live whatever lifestyle he WANTS but my issue is with him being used as a weapon.

Is this enough evidence, along with the fact that her attorney initially made fun of a physicians referral in court when my son was one that he be seen by a developmental specialist for probable autism, which was ignored by the mother until two years later when a day care provider gave her a written referral that she was legally obligated to act under after ignoring verbal referral from the day care provider; as well as the child has been literally taken out of the classroom since Christmas from the other children.

I live 1000 miles away, largely due to the hostility from the mother. The actual facts are the complete opposite of the stereotype. She is the abusive party, yet nobody will entertain reality due to it conflicts with their desired beliefs and sticking with the status quo.

Is there truly no remedy for the child in this situation other than that he must suffer abuse because society just says it is ok? The police officer literally refused to investigate a puncture wound on the child that the child claimed came from his teachers aid stabbing him with a lego stick, claiming it is a conflict of interest against his job to protect the administration last year. I made complaints to the school staff and social worker about the abuse and they ran out and called the police on me.

This is absolutely really occurring.

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Hi @doesdadhaverights

 

If you believe that the custodial parent is behaving in an inappropriate way, or exposing the child to inappropriate influences, your only remedy is through the family courts. You can file a motion to modify custody or request a child custody evaluation. If you need the assistance of a family law attorney, click here for a free consultation.

 

Best of luck,

The FindLaw.com Team

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Sexuality is not contagious. Introducing children to other humans with a different sexual orientation/gender orientation from yourself, and taking the child to events which celebrate diversity is not abuse. Neither is letting a young child play with make-up free of judgment and traditional gender expectations. This is not using the child as a weapon. It has nothing to do with you. Your choice to live 1000 miles away means it is more difficult for you to be a regular part of your child's life. If you see exposure to gender diversity as abuse, expect that rift to grow.

 

If Mom is refusing to address a medical condition or allow appropriate interventions for the child related to an autism (or other) diagnosis, you can address those things in a custody agreement. Day care providers can not force parents to have their children tested for autism or any other conditions. Certainly they may suggest the child is showing signs of XYZ or describe problematic behavior, but day care providers are not clinicians. They can not diagnose autism or anything else.

 

I can't tell from your post how you feel the school is abusing the child. Legos do not cause puncture wounds. If you feel the child really is being physically abused, contact child protective services where the child lives.

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This is a really complicated situation, you must immediately consult a good attorney and explain him the current situation. You can file a petition in the court challenging the custody and provide the evidence you mentioned. If you have any proof of the complaint which you made to the police, school and the social worker then include that also as it will be helpful in building a tight case against the mother. My friend's sister also faced a similar situation, so she consulted a renowned lawyer over here in Paris and he guided her perfectly.

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