My son took my car and totaled it. When I couldnt find my car when I woke up or him, I was worried and went to see if cops had it, if there was an accident. I expressed he used my car before. When cop came to my home to say it was totaled, I went on emotions. Told cop, diff one, he used before but I didnt say he could that night. Charges were filed unauth use ( criminal charge ) several misdemeanors. He has been in state prison for 2 months, he was arrested and state parole held because he failed to report he stayed at a female house instead mine for a few days. Really. Shouldn't he have had hearing on charges with car within 10 days in Pennsylvania? If so, can I request to throw charges out? His hearing is Wednesday 2 months later. I said I am not going forward with unauth use because he did live with me and used the car, seeing my new car totaled I was angry. He is going to sit regardless due to state parole.
Can judge decide against if I say I won't testify?