Her brothers live in NC one with me, one with my x husband.. The reason I stopped letting my daughter visit was because we had a 3 day on, 2 day off court order..(him3 days, me 2 and switched the next week)and I had to call the police on 7 different occasions to get her back from him and the last night they came out he had been drinking and driving and they said if I brought her back down there they were not going to help me anymore. Not long after that, he was charged with some serious offences, from meth to having a fugitive wanted by the FBI hiding down in his barn. I went to the director of dss in my county and she wrote and signed a letter stating that it was unsafe to allow my daughter to go down to her fathers. After a year had passed, 2 weeks before she started kindergarten, he took me to court. The judge would not accept the letter and ordered me to take hair drug test because marijuana was brought up,but the judge stated I couldn't use the hair on my head for testing because I may have done something to it. Anyway, on day 2 of the hearing,when I was ordered to bring my daughter, the judge locked me up for failure to comply with the court order and the only person who could take her was my daughters grandmother with whom her father lives with but she had had a dui a few years ago so they took my daughter to a shelter then foster care. My dad or anyone out of state was allowed to take her. My x husband and his wife went through the icpc process and were approved but when the 8th social worker told them it would be permanent, they didn't know what to do..thats where the youngest brother resides as well. My dad would gladly take her and they've known tho from the start.