My sons mom and I were divorced when he was about 4 years old. She is German and had moved back when he was 2 to Germany. The divorce papers only state that I have been providing financial support and thats it, nothing about a dollar amount or time frame. I have always paid on time and raised it every so many years as well plus helping buy things for him. I visit him or fly him over every couple of years. He is coming up on 18 and I am wanting to stop paying support since I have 3 other children that need things and this has been tough over the years on us.
So as he approaches 18 can I stop support since he has already graduated high school? Should I wait till he is 18 to tell the mom? Any advice thanks.