My husband and I have not lived together for almost 3 years. Due to a lack of money I used the "total divorce $209" listed in the paper which required me to do all of the footwork with no help. I couldn't even call with a question about the paperwork. We got all the way to the end and they wrote back stating that I had my husband sign the divorce papers and served him with the papers on the same day. I was asked to send more money, wait 30 days inbetween, and do it all over again. This was over 6 months ago. I was recently told I can put a divorce in front of a judge myself, no attorney, and have it signed off because we have been separated for so long. We got married in Warren, Ohio but I live in New Castle, Pennsylvania. We have two kids, however, he pays no support and I really just want him out of our lives completely. He is currently living in Cortland, New York. I just want to know if anyone knows the cheapest, easiest way to get a divorce and how to go about it. Please help....I just want this chapter of my life closed. I know nothing of law and want it to be over so I can move on.