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Question from married2psychoNov-7
I have a 15 year old stepdaughter from a same sex marriage. My wife and I are currently separated with a divorce upcoming. The 15 year old wishes to remain residing in my home, and her mother has stated to her that if she pursues this, she will have her reported as a runaway,and consequently, I will be charged for "harboring a runaway". The child has recently witnessed violent verbal and physical outbursts, and does not want to live with her mother. She is very mature and has the ability to make sound, reasonable decisions not based on emotions. What are my options? Does the 15 yr old have a say in where she wishes to reide? Please help!!!
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NewOneNow Nov-9 79071.2

At 15 she most likely will be allowed to let the court know her preference, but that assumes that you file a motion for custody.  Custody (with visitation to the mom) will be difficult since she is a step-daughter, not a bio-daughter.  You will need to prove the mother unfit and that it is in the best interest of the child to live with you.

If you're up to the challenge, then go for it.  Be sure to get a good family law attorney and document all violent verbal and physical outbursts.  Good luck.

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