I had gone through a bad divorce recently, I have three children, A long story short I had lost my middle child to his grandmother and she requested visitation for the youngest and got it. The father doesn't' have any rights to either of the kids. My oldest child is from a previous relationship and has nothing to do with this. Dominick my middle boy lives with his grandma and Cameron the youngest lives with me.The reason she got Dominick is because we lived with her at the time of his birth and being her babys's baby she grew a bond with him and I didn't' as much, After moving out she would always want him and babysat for me while I was working. One night turned into two nights and so on and so on. I wish I could take it back! She took advantage of me and I took advantage of her. During the divorce the grandparents had all the money and a good attorney, I had only a couple hundred and a new attorney that was intimidated by there attorney, I was scared and had no idea what I was signing and what I could fight for. I lost my attorney half way through the process because of insufficient funds and had to finish on my own. I have recently been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years and we are talking about marriage and we are also bettering our future by going to school and thought about moving. My question is, is there any way that we could take this to court and end the visitation with Cameron so I can move to another place? I know is hard for anyone to understand but I didn't' grow a bond with my middle boy and I am still becoming ok with the fact that I will never have him. If I wanted to move to get a better job or move on as a family I'm afraid that because the grandma has visitation I will never be able to move and better my family. Please help
